This box was getting smaller by the second. Where did all the air go?
This box was getting smaller by the second. Where did all the air go?
“Oh and Clara, when are you going to get a boyfriend?" She said it like boyfriends were fruits which could be plucked from trees or ornaments necessary to authorize membership in the “normal teenage girls” club.
You’ve always felt like the odd one out, never fast enough at catching the innuendos, convinced your friends’ outbursts were mere exaggerations.
I want to get drinks and food with you / Crawl into your brain places as we talk / Explore the topography of your mind web / And catch myself in your connections
I would call it a piece about enclosure and removal, retention and emission, harmony and chaos – feelings I closely associate with attraction.
Your attraction is cautious, wanting to know someone before it will come out of hiding.
It’s not that I’m against sex, or that I don’t even enjoy it / But it always feels like there’s something I’m missing
I envy people who understand attraction to the point where they don’t even have to think about it.
Yet, to me, the attraction is not just about the mind, the heart, or the soul…
And sex is not necessary, even if sexual fantasies are a part of her life.
I want to pour you thirteen cups of tea, / strawberry and cranberry, twirling, swirling, / like your eyebrows lifted when I said I didn’t want to have sex.
When we desire an emotional bond with someone we admire, it can be hard to accept that they don’t feel the same. But desire isn’t a license to guilt or push someone.
I think my life would be better without the concept of ‘attraction’ constantly invading my thoughts. I overthink it, I see it everywhere. I can’t escape from it.
All are secret dances / I do not know the steps to. / Some I regret not knowing / more than others.
It’s not sexual and goes beyond aesthetics but is nevertheless physical.
The Asexual questions what is attraction as authors discuss its meaning and demonstrate its elasticity through their expressions.