I was first aware of gender when my voice changed.
All in Personal
Queer as in Fuck You
First, you want to know who fucks me now.
Dress Code
All the girls wore plaid jumpers until I turned ten years old.
Intimacy – The Duality of being Ace.
I write a lot about intimacy. I write about my understanding of it.
From Toxically Male to Asexual: Unlearning Patriarchal Maleness
Not so long ago, a friend of mine told me that people that knew me from school were surprised to hear that I was interested in feminist topics.
Half of What You Think of Me
Someone has to leave first. This is a very old story. There is no other version of this story.
Intim-ace-y
Without boundaries, without expectations, without conformity.
Wine / Promises
I don't wanna be cautious with anymore when i’m with you.
And Men Make Dogs
“And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how the sausage is made.”
Being Human
“I - really? You still want to be friends even if I don’t want to date you?”
Paperdoll
“’But for one glorious moment, I touched the sun.’”
Loveable
“You’ve never been kissed?! You’re joking.”
Untitled
fortunately, this is rarely an issue with my gay friends since i'm clear about my boundaries. i do feel like an outcast at times, though.
Touch and Go
So for now, I’ll walk that tightrope of compromise, walk, and fall and fall again until I have my footing.
There’s something about David and Jonathan
But what if both perspectives meet somewhere in the middle? What if they weren’t straight, and what if they weren’t gay? What if they were homoromantic, even asexual?
To You, From 2019
I can finally say, I am much healthier and happier without her. From 2022 until some day, I have someone who understands the Asexual experience, and loves me.
Conversation Plan and Reflection: Introducing my Ace Identity (Or: How I realized it wasn't safe to come out)
Hermit crab essay by Justin Ancheta.
