You don’t seem to feel things the way that other people do. It’s been ten years; fifteen, and that hasn’t changed.
You don’t seem to feel things the way that other people do. It’s been ten years; fifteen, and that hasn’t changed.
For the asexual whose body is inherently sexualized, they may be deemed to be too inherently sexual to be asexual, directly conflicting with their ability to claim and have access to the identity of asexuality on a societal level.
Gay and queer asexual masculinities could challenge erotic bodily regimes but at the same time exist precariously within them.
…we are told that skinny is better and more attractive, and being overweight is, not only unhealthy, but unattractive.
My ideal scenario is for other people to see me as attractive in the same exact way that I find people attractive: aesthetically, rather than sexually.
Oil and Conte Crayon Mixed Media Painting by Ashley Kleczka.
The Asexual focuses on the body for its third issue, capturing perspectives on body shaming, sexualization, reproduction, medicalization, and more.
When asexuality is unconditional it becomes far more difficult to confront, understand, and accept as legitimate.
Gatekeeping functions as a constricting and silencing force to certain groups that may be perceived as on the "fringes" of queerness…
More is as how society would put it, at least, sex is always more. Why not less?
As I gradually became committed to understanding and calling myself "asexual," their questions turned to whispers, and their whispers turned to thoughts.
“I’m sorry, I’m not interested in sex really,” I said. “Well, no one would want to have sex with you anyway.”