A letter by Gretchen Turonek.
Sex can be a weapon – a dagger that can leave wounds that will never fully heal.
We grew up hearing that we had to admire and aspire to be with these alluring people, so that we could have sex with them and have nice children: “hay que mejorar la raza.”
Asexual is one such label which has met with misrepresentations — perpetuated in medicine, the law, and popular media — due to both the lack of a strict definition and a pervasive “sexual assumption.”
For our Sex issue, The Asexual invites writers and artists under the ace umbrella to explore the intersections of the sexual and asexual.
Coming of age, I knew I was gay. But, something always felt... different.
Growing up as a second-generation Chinese Australian, I was constantly learning that the norm was actually just my norm.
How do I explain that the “connection” they conceptualize as friendship represents a lot more to me? What does “more” mean to an asexual, anyway?
I wanted to be a voice for queer people of color in the community amongst the majority of queer white voices that drowned everyone else out.
Although ace visibility is changing, whiteness still dominates the community. This may be partially attributed to the fact that “asexuality,” as a contemporary identity category, originated within selective and highly white online spaces…
Understand that an asexual movement must address the nuances of racialized sexuality before being able to argue for an identity-based asexuality.
Victoria Kee discusses her upcoming web series and representation for ace people of color.
“And what life is, often, is highly sexual – for most people, anyway. Or at least, that’s my understanding of it.”