Vol. 5, Issue 4: Gay Asexuality/Aromanticism
AZE, 5(4): Gay Asexuality/Aromanticism
Contributors: Rosie Clarke, Michael Paramo, daniel p. lopez, Berit Hanna, Moira Armstrong, Shastra Deo, Alex Terry, Joey Thurmond, Anna María Mengani, Ginko Pascual, Hussain Ebrahim
Editor: Michael Paramo
Cover Artwork: “untitled,” Paramo
Supporters: This journal issue would not be possible without AZE’s supporters on Patreon. A special thank you to Lindsey, Alex Hansen, Caitlin McKenna, Chris Pasillas, and Heidi Samuelson!
Date of Publication: February 18th, 2023
Acespec development infers growing without a qualifier: not growing sideways or growing into anything in particular, but just growing—directionless and aimless by societal standards perhaps, but growing still, in unexpected ways.
comparing myself to other gays
fortunately, this is rarely an issue with my gay friends since i'm clear about my boundaries. i do feel like an outcast at times, though.
So for now, I’ll walk that tightrope of compromise, walk, and fall and fall again until I have my footing.
This shows that amatonormativity is not only a concern of theorists, or of modern-day asexual and aromantic activists; instead, it has been a thread through gay liberation from the roots of the movement.
but the issue is really that none / of those poems have / you
and although everyone else there says it’s fine, / i still insist that i haven’t quite gotten the color right.
But what if both perspectives meet somewhere in the middle? What if they weren’t straight, and what if they weren’t gay? What if they were homoromantic, even asexual?
I can finally say, I am much healthier and happier without her. From 2022 until some day, I have someone who understands the Asexual experience, and loves me.
Effeminate gays and masculine lesbians struggle through societal expectations onto them. They are unable to even satisfy internal desires of being nurturing versus providing, being homemakers versus breadwinners, in a constant conflict with their inner being.